NOW. That's it, just three letters, N - O - W.
Dictionary Meaning for the word NOW - Webster's New World Dictionary: -adverb-
1. At the present time; at the moment; at once
2. At the time referred to; then; next {now his joy began}
3. At a time very close to the present; very recently.
There may be many things you dream about - wealth, fame, health, a
promotion, love, happiness, peace. But what you dream about, even
desire, is elusive. You may get it; you may not. What you have is
simply this: NOW.
"Luke 12:34: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also."
The time to enjoy your children is NOW. Yes it would be nice to dream
about having a hot tub, a swimming pool, a vacation cabin at the lake,
but if it means taking that extra job, leaving no time to see your
children, think again. You may end up with an empty hot tub or swimming
pool. Kids grow up, they grow away, they want you to love them and be
interested in them: NOW.
Take someone you love to lunch. No, not three weeks from now when there
is a blank spot in your appointment book: NOW, when it is obvious they
need you.
Do you dream about having a perfect marriage, a wonderful friendship?
One of the greatest things you can express to a loved one is the
message, "I treasure you."...I am blessed with a wife that treasures me
and I try to treasure her back.
Letting your loved ones, whether wife, parents, children or friends,
know that they are treasured is one of the greatest compliments and
best affirmations of love - and one of the best ways to say, "I Iove
you." Clear up any misunderstanding: NOW. Stop waiting for the perfect
moment and the perfect place and the perfect atmosphere. Do it NOW,
before the quarrel grows into a tangle of fears and pride and scar
tissue.
So what is the best way to let your loved one know that you treasure
them? Quit dreaming about how you can get back together. Do it NOW!
Here are three ways to get started in the right direction:
1. Don't make the mistake of thinking your loved ones already knows how
you feel about them - they may not. Your past actions may have shown
them a different side of you.
2. Be specific. If you like their jokes, their grin, their laughter, or
their touch - tell them NOW....Instead of focusing on what's wrong with
them, focus on their positive traits, habits, and behaviour - on what's
right. Just doing this NOW will help you dismiss the imperfections and
keep you from sweating the small things.
3. Tell them. Tell them often. Just because you told them last month,
they need to hear it again, and again. The love of your partner, your
children, your friends is the greatest gift. Treasure them, and let
them know you do, NOW.
Visit that sick friend. Not tomorrow, not next weekend, NOW. Take
lunch with you to the hospital. Don't just dream about doing it. There
may well be a special urgency about this NOW.
Say thank you, NOW. If a writing friend has helped you with an article
or a project and it was very well done, make a fuss. Don't wait till
you get famous, do it NOW. Everyone's ego needs stroking and the time
to do it is when the soul is still elated. If you are still employed
and your boss has given you extra attention, guidance and time, say
thanks, NOW.... Being a boss is difficult. It's pleasant to know that
good "bossing" is appreciated. Bad "bossing" is certainly noticed fast
enough.
So you dream about changing your life? Do it NOW. Maybe your dreams
won't come true right now, but you can make a start. Enroll in a
course, join a fitness club, get involved in a volunteer group. Put
your goals in writing; work out a plan to achieve your dreams. Start on
it NOW.
Sometimes I think we are all so determined to become happy, that we
fail to enjoy the happiness we have. So fixed are we on the destination
that we fail to enjoy the trip. There's a lot of happiness in your life
this very moment, if you will relax enough to see it.
Stephen Leacock observed: "Life, we learn too late, is in the living, in the tissue of each day and hour."
Stop your dreaming, your wishing. NOW: It's a beautiful word. It's an even more beautiful way of life.
NOW: A short, sharp word that can enrich your life.
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